Friday, 6 November 2009

Baby Boy Giggles - Hide and watch TV

Baby Boy hiding in a wooden playhouse
Baby Boy and I were having a game of hide and seek in the living room. As he ran to hide behind the curtains I quickly jumped on to the sofa and huddled into a ball whilst pulling a blanket over me.

"Come and find me!" I called
"Mama?! he called back giggling as he did.

I heard an odd sound of the bean bags being moved and then the further rustle which sounded like Baby Boy sitting on the bean bag. I peeked out of the edge of the blanket and saw Baby Boy sitting on the bean bag in front of the TV with the remote in hands having figured out how to turn the TV over so he could watch cartoons.

"Baby Boy?" I said indignantly
"Boo Mama!" he giggled whilst not taking his eyes off the TV.

A Minute for Madeleine

Top Ender was asleep in my bed as Daddy was at work and we had been celebrating my birthday by having a midnight feast. The news came on and I heard about a young girl, Madeleine Mcann, who had gone missing whilst on holiday. I silently said a prayer that this little girl would be found, her family be given comfort and that I would never be in the same position as them. I didn't realise for a few minutes, but Top Ender had woken up and was watching the news story with me.


As Top Ender lay in my bed she started to say out loud a prayer for this little blonde girl and her family. She realised that she was only a few months younger than this little girl and knew that this little Girl was somewhere without her parents and her siblings and would be scared. The prayer that she said was simple and beautiful and broke my heart that both Top Ender and Madeleine were being exposed to something as terrible as this.


I don't know if someone who reads this blog knows where Madeleine Mcann is. I don't know if someone who reads this blog knows where any child that has gone missing is. But I hope that if you reading this right now and you do know that you will act and tell the local police.





Top Ender and I have watched this video. I explained to her again the rules about Strangers and she asked if she could have a moment of your time as she has something to say to the people who took Madeleine away;


"Give her back. She wasn't yours to take and you shouldn't keep her. How would you like it if you were taken away from your Mummy and Daddy or your child was taken away from you?"


and to Madeleine she wants to say


"Don't be scared, your Mummy and Daddy and lots of people all over the world are looking for you and we will find you, I promise we will find you."


Its never too late to do the right thing. If you know anything at all, do the right thing now and contact your local police.

Thursday, 5 November 2009

Christmas Gifts and the idea of being frugal

Christmas means such a lot to me and always has. I think it in a large part has to do with my Mum and her enthusiasm for Christmas. As a child she and her family didn't have a lot of money and as we grew up she tried to make sure that we never went without.

We never went without.

With this in my background it isn't surprising that every Christmas I try to come up with a new and inventive gift for family members that doesn't cost the earth, and over the last eight years I have come up with a large number of ideas...


Frugal Christmas Carnival Badge

When I saw that Liz at Violet Posy was hosting a Frugal Christmas Carnival I had to jump in with my ideas, as it isn't always about the money when buying gifts, but using your imagination and making sure that the gift that you choose fits the person and their needs.

So for your pleasure here are some gift ideas that you might like to use. Before we get to them however I am going to have to trust immediate family members that read my blog not to read this post until after Christmas, because your gift this year is mentioned here!

Home made chocolate shapes

This is as easy as can be, last year Top Ender and I brought several cheap bars of chocolate (It was the value stuff from Tesco!) and we melted it in a glass bowl in the microwave before pouring it into shaped ice cube trays that we had previously brought from Ikea. After they had set we popped them out of the trays and put them into cellophane bags (we had been given them the previous Easter, but not used them) we added two lollies from a multibag from the £1 shop and then tied them up with gold or green ribbon.

Each one of Top Enders friends that got a bag was delighted and so was I as it cost next to nothing!

Home made crayons

Top Ender has hundreds of bits of crayons. Every so often I steal them off her and put them into my tin. Once I have a good amount of bits, I melt them in the microwave (in a glass jug) and pour them into the shaped ice cube trays. Again I let them set, and once they are done I pop them out, voila new multi-coloured crayons!

Top Enders friends are getting these for Christmas this year, along with personalised notepads.

Personalised Notepads

Take a plain notepad, decorate and personalise.... genius!

Cake in a mug

Put into a ziplock bag;

4 tablespoons flour
2 tablespoons sugar
2 tablespoons cocoa
1 tablespoon choc chips

Then put it in a mug and wrap in cellophane and on a label add the follow information;

Add 1 egg, 3 tablespoons milk, 3 tablespoons butter or oil and mix well. Once mixed put in the microwave for 3 minutes. Wait for two minutes after cooking before eating!

No sew Fleece Blanket

The amount of fabric you need depends upon the size you want to make. A rough guide is as follows Baby size 1 to 1 1/2 yards, Child 1 3/4 yards, Adult 2 yards. You can choose two different fleece patterns or colours and make them compliment each other or contrast, but both will need to be the same size that you have chosen!

Place them on top of each other with the good sides facing out and I then like to cut round the edges to trim the straight and to get rid of the selvage. I then cut a 4"x4" square out of each corner on both layers and then I cut a fringe round the outside. You need to cut 4" in every 1", you need to keep them uniform in size so I tend to use either my fingers or a piece of the fleece I have already cut as a marker.

Once this is done you need to tie a fringe from each piece in a knot. I like to double knot them and to tie every other one and then to turn the blanket over once I have gone once round to tie the others as it makes it more even and secure.

And that's it!

Knitted items

Can you knit? Then knit a square blanket, or a scarf or anything that your skills will allow. I made Baby Boy a scarf last year when I couldn't find one that was the right size for him, all from following instructions found on the web.

Home Made Costumes

A couple of years back red cotton was on offer in a fabric shop, and so I brought a meter. It cost a couple of pounds and I turned it in to Little Red Riding Hood's cape and hood. Top Ender was thrilled with her costume and it is still in the costume box!

Top Ender wearing a red hood cape with white stitching

Hand Sewn Items

I wasn't very handy with a needle and thread when I saw this castle material in John Lewis. It was an off cut and therefore didn't cost much! I turned it into an Apron during my lunch hour, sitting at my desk the week before Christmas.

Top Ender wearing a castle apron

Top Ender has grown out of it now and I am turning it into some clothes for her dolls, but this Christmas both she and Baby Boy are getting new apron's from material that I brought from the Fabric Shop. The cost was £4 for the two pieces!

Secret Hollow Book

This is one of Daddy's gifts this year, and there are hundreds on instructions out there. The best I have found are here and I think it makes a great gift! You can even hide things in it when you give it and wait to see a disappointed face when all they get is an old book, not knowing hidden inside is something great!

Letter writing set

Buy stamps, envelopes, paper, a nice pen and an address book. I also like to include plain postcards and some little notelet cards. Of course I always include a hand written letter from me too!

Photo album

When Big Cousin turned one, we gave Auntie a photo album with all the pictures that had been taken of Big Cousin since she was born. We had a copy of all of the images Auntie had taken as a back up and Daddy thought it would make a great gift. Daddy was right as Auntie loved the gift. We have been asked to do it again by Granny for her as a Christmas gift, but for all four children.

Framed Photo

One of the funniest gifts we have ever given was one that wasn't known about. At Easter Auntie and her family came with us and Granny to the Gardens of Woburn Abbey for a walk round. When Daddy and I left with Top Ender and Baby Boy we had a plan to get a photo that had been taken that day printed, put into a frame and snuck into Grannys house. We did this, all within an hour of the photo having been taken. It took Granny eight hours to spot the new photo....

If you have a photo that is special make a copy and give it in a frame to someone. It always makes me smile to see photos I have taken on display at someone else's home.

The Card Box

This I always think of as a good gift for older people, but it can work for anyone. Simply buy a selection of greeting cards for various occasions, multiple times (I did it for my Gran and I counted out how many Birthday cards she would need for all her Children, her Grandchildren and her Great Grandchildren as well as a few for friends, but I also added Thank you cards, anniversary cards and plain cards). This gift can cost as much as you want as there are shops that sell Greeting cards from 29p these days and a lot of them are really nice, but it does sometimes take a little effort to find the good ones for this price!

Hampers

This is my signature gift. I don't think there is anyone in our extended family that hasn't had a hamper from me at Christmas or on a birthday. I like to theme them.

The Breakfast in Bed Hamper. A bedding set on a tray, along with Jam, Croissants, Coffee, Tea, Hot Chocolate, a variety pack of Cereal, some Bucks Fizz and some Orange Juice. Then of course there are the finishing touches a DVD of either Breakfast at Tiffanys or The Breakfast Club, some napkins etc.

The Art Hamper. Some Paintbrushes, some paint, some sketch pads, a smock, a couple of canvasses and anything else that you find cheap! I found some cheap art pad covers in WHSmiths that did great!

The Italian meal. Sun Dried Tomatos, Pasta, Pesto, mozzarella cheese, Italian wine, cans of Cappuccino, Italian Biscuits... you get the idea! Although my Brother in law does still sometimes mention the year we got him cheese for Christmas...

The bath Hamper. Bubble Bath, a Bath pillow, shower gel, soap, shampoo, candles, a good book and a bottle of something to drink. This can be presented in a bath sheet and given with a hand towel and a flannel.

The Adult Basket. This was a great gift given to a friend and her husband. Novelty under ware, wine, massage oil, chocolate, grapes and strawberries and I think there was also a Karma Sutra book. I know there was a mix CD featuring Barry White!

The Chocolate Hamper. Chocolate, Chocolate and more Chocolate! Oh and Drinking Chocolate!

The luxury Hamper. Think of all the things that your intended person likes but doesn't buy often as they are expensive. Now buy those. I did this for my Gran and gave her biscuits, cans of drink, soup, crisps, chocolate, sweets and magazines.

No Budget

Kids art work

Top Ender and Baby Boy have loads of drawings that we like to give as gifts. It costs nothing, and always means something to the person to get a drawing just for them.

Drawing of a house that Top Ender drew for her Great Granny

Coupons

Home made coupons, for a dinner at home, a cake, a massage, doing the dishes or what ever you can think of always go down well here!

Preserves

Home made preserves using up your home grown fruit and veg show your talents and cost you nothing!
Top Ender picking apples
Cakes

My Gran use to love cake, but a whole cake would go hard before she could eat it. I would make her a cake every month (her choice of flavour) and cut it in to individual slices before wrapping them and putting them in her freezer. Then she could have a slice of cake when ever she wanted!
Cupcakes iced and decorated to look like Rudolph the red nosed Reindeer
Mix Tape (well CD these days!)

Create a mix tape of songs that mean something to the person. Daddy has made a few for me in the past and they always bring back special memories when ever I listen to them.

And those are all that I can think of at the moment but why not take a look at my Frugal Christmas entertainment ideas and my Frugal Christmas Food whilst I wish you a frugal Christmas!

Wednesday, 4 November 2009

Wordless Wednesday - I'm free! or Toddler version of Burning your Bra

Baby Boy holding his reigns with abandon

Tuesday, 3 November 2009

Daddy Giggles - I knew it when I married him!

Top Ender and Daddy in a seaside head in a hole scene

Daddy and I have been encouraging Top Ender to drink water through out the day, as we told her that being hydrated would help her get better. We have been adding very weak squash to the water in order to get her to drink it, at more than a rate of a bottle every 24 hours

Daddy went into the kitchen to fill up Top Enders Bottle and I could hear him pushing the freezer stick into the bottle.

"Daddy? The freezer stick is supposed to stay in the cap" I called
"But then the lid doesn't come off!" he called back
"You have to unscrew the top lid" I called back again
"That hole is too small for pouring things in!" he answered
"Then you unscrew the second lid" I called back

I could hear the top lid being unscrewed, followed by the second lid and a gentle giggle from Daddy:

"I wondered how you were supposed to get the stick out to put it in the freezer!" he giggled

Top Ender has only had the bottle for nine months!

Monday, 2 November 2009

The Yummy Mummy with no tummy Challenge - Week Eleven

The Yummy Mummy with No Tummy Challenge Logo
My Body is a Temple. I ought to fill it with fruit and vegetables and the occasional meat offering, but somewhere down the line I went off the recommended diet and started filling my Temple with junk food and turned my Temple into ruins.

Mummy in front of a Greek ruin
Like what I did there?

The problem with me is I get distracted. Ooh, Daddy has just come home with a Tesco bag - must see what he has bought. Back in 5.

See? Like I said distracted.

Combine this with my love of multi-tasking (I am currently watching House whilst typing this, as it is really 21:15 on Sunday) and you have why, in my opinion, I can't lose weight.

I start one task and before I can finish it I have moved on to another, either by mistake or by my own design. I think know this is also the reason as to why my house isn't as clutter free and clean as I wish it was!
Having this blog as a form of accountability has helped a lot, because I know that I have plans for dinner each night and I know that if I don't lose weight then you are all going to know about it!
So I weigh 19 stone and 3lbs today and by the end of this week I won't!

Meal Plan

Breakfast: Meal Replacement Drink (Slimfast to you and me!)
Lunch: Sandwich or Meal Replacement Drink

Monday: Roast Turkey and Vegetables
Tuesday: Bubble and Squeak with Mash
Wednesday: Pasta frittata
Thursday: Turkey Pie with cubed roasted potatoes
Friday: Pizza
Saturday: Creamy Fish Lasagna
Sunday: Steak and Mushrooms

Exercise Plan

Monday through Saturday: 30 minute walk, ten minutes of weights, and 20 minutes following my online plan each day.
Sunday: Two hour walk, ten minutes of weights and plenty of family fun!

Sunday, 1 November 2009

Family Area and Family Fun - Week Ten of the Holiday Grand Plan

Christmas Tree in window

Its November, Bonfire night is in just a few days and Christmas is next month. In just four weeks I will be putting up my Christmas decorations, so I guess I should take down the Halloween ones! I think that I had better start getting serious with what I am doing and it it is a good week for me to do this as this week is the Family Room Week in the Holiday Grand Plan.

We don't have a Family Room as such, but we do have family areas and I need to move one of them around so we can put up the tree. I have already done the deep clean in the living room, and I have sorted out all the Children's toys but I haven't gone through the colouring books and pens or crayons. I also have a lot of videos and DVDs that need clearing out and categorising and then there is still a lot of things that need finishing off!

So this week won't be too hard, but I won't be slacking off either!

This week I also need to carry on with the holiday prep which this week consists of:

*Make one batch of Holiday Goodies.
*Make one extra meal for freezer again labeled HOLIDAY MEAL.
*Buy two canned food items from menus
*Work at least 1 hour a day on homemade gifts.

Also this week I will;

*Continue with Top Ender writing her Christmas cards to the children in her year
*Start to write our family Christmas cards (I didn't last week as we were all too ill)
*Start planning weekly Christmas memory events (like our late night trip to London)

And we will continue to;

*Look for Holiday Outfits for Me and tights for Top Ender
*Stock the Mummy Christmas Shop
*Watch one Christmas film as a family a week

This week I am going to go in a little bit of Christmas over drive, and will post my ideas for having a frugal Christmas as part of the Thrifty Christmas Celebration over at Violet Posy.

Thrifty Christmas at Violet Posy logo

It seems that I am now in fashion with my thrifty ideas and ways!

As always if you would like to see how some others are preparing for Christmas take a look at theses fellow Bloggers and share the comment love with them;